There is a saying that up to 30 years you don’t care for what people speak about you and after 30 years you care for what people speak about you.but after 60 years you will realize that people never spoke about you.
Very often we worry about what will happen in society, if I say this, if I do this, the best answer to this is, stop thinking about society so much, there is more to life than just following few traditions, superstitions of society.
There is a whole lot of wrong things happening at present in society, which will come to an end once time goes on, but when it will happen is the question, hope that we have self-realization of what truly matters in life, before its late.
Wish you a happy life!!